Is it really that hard to stay in love?

The concept of love, to the most part, is still a mystery to me.

I believe that when loving someone, which of course deserves it, and staying in love with them shouldn’t be that hard after all.

Wouldn’t you say that the couples who are getting a divorce, was once madly in love? Weren’t they inseparable? Wasn’t it like that they couldn’t keep their hands of each other?

Then why the hell did they stop? What happened after a point of time that the relationship as well as the feeling became cold, if not froze?

I wouldn’t know. Or else I wouldn’t have written that headline or this article.

I just think that when you commit to a relationship, and when you decide that someone is worthy of your love, you work your ass off to keep that relationship going for as long as you have life inside you. And you would never stop fighting to make it better every single day.

It really is that simple. And I’m not saying that it’s easy cause it’s not. It’s really hard. But it’s simple. As simple as saying:

You love your partner, and your partner loves you. So just be cool and love each other for the eternity.

I just can’t figure out why some people have to make it so goddamn hard.

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